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What Happens at the First Meeting With an Injury Attorney, and What to Bring

The short version

The first meeting happens in person, where you are, after we have talked by phone or video. Whether we work together is decided at that meeting. Rule 1.18 protects what you tell me there even if you never hire me. Bring the crash report, the other driver's information, insurance cards, medical bills and records, and any photos.

A first meeting with an injury attorney is a consultation, and the North Carolina ethics rules protect the person in it before any agreement is signed. The papers worth bringing come from different places, and each one has its own rule behind it. This post covers the order of the visit, what Rule 1.18 and Rule 1.6 protect, where the crash report and exchange details come from, how to get medical records and bills, and the one paper to leave unsigned until we meet.

The first meeting comes after a phone or video call

The first meeting with me is an in-person meeting where you are, and it follows a first conversation by phone or video. Wherever you are in North Carolina, I can come to you. The full order is on the page about how a visit works.

The phone or video call, the first contact

First contact is by phone or video, and the in-person meeting comes after it.

The in-person meeting, where the decision gets made

I meet you in person where you are, and whether we work together is decided there.

Rule 1.18(a) of the North Carolina Rules of Professional Conduct defines a prospective client as a person who consults with an attorney about the possibility of forming an attorney-client relationship. That describes the person on the call and at the meeting, before anyone is hired.

Comment [1] to Rule 1.18 says an attorney's consultations with a prospective client usually leave both the prospective client and the attorney free, and sometimes required, to proceed no further. Meeting me in person does not commit you to hire me.

What stays confidential at a first meeting before anyone is hired?

Under Rule 1.18(b) of the North Carolina Rules of Professional Conduct, an attorney who learns information from a prospective client cannot use or reveal it, even when no attorney-client relationship follows. The rule's own exception is what Rule 1.9 would permit for a former client's information. What you tell me at the first meeting stays protected even if you decide not to hire me.

What you tell me at the first meeting stays protected even if you decide not to hire me.

Comment [3] to Rule 1.18 says this duty exists regardless of how brief the initial conference is. A short meeting where you are carries the same duty as a long one.

Papers you hand over at the first meeting

Comment [1] to Rule 1.18 recognizes that prospective clients, like clients, may disclose information to an attorney and place documents or other property in the attorney's custody. Comment [9] points to Rule 1.15 for an attorney's duties when a prospective client entrusts papers to the attorney's care.

Exception. Comment [2] to Rule 1.18 says a consultation does not occur when a person sends information in response to advertising that only describes an attorney's education, experience, practice areas and contact information, or that provides legal information of general interest. The same comment says a consultation is likely when an attorney's advertising specifically invites information about a potential representation without clear warnings that limit the attorney's obligations.

Rule 1.6 after hiring, and why it reaches past privilege

Rule 1.6(a) of the North Carolina Rules of Professional Conduct bars an attorney from revealing information acquired during the professional relationship with a client. The exceptions are the client's informed consent, a disclosure impliedly authorized to carry out the representation, and the disclosures paragraph (b) permits.

Comment [3] to Rule 1.6 separates the ethics rule of confidentiality from the attorney-client privilege and the work product doctrine. The privilege and the work product doctrine apply in judicial and other proceedings where an attorney is called as a witness or required to produce evidence about a client. The confidentiality rule applies in situations other than those where evidence is sought from the attorney through compulsion of law.

The same comment says the confidentiality rule covers not only what a client says in confidence but all information acquired during the representation, whatever its source.

Rule 1.18 and Rule 1.6, two stages of the same relationship
QuestionRule 1.18, before anyone is hiredRule 1.6, after you hire an attorney
Who it protectsA prospective client, a person consulting about a possible attorney-client relationshipA client
What it coversInformation the attorney learned from the prospective clientInformation acquired during the professional relationship, whatever its source
What the attorney cannot doUse or reveal it, except as Rule 1.9 would permit for a former clientReveal it without informed consent, implied authorization or a paragraph (b) exception
Whether hiring mattersApplies even when no attorney-client relationship followsApplies once the relationship exists

Comment [2] to Rule 1.6 says confidentiality encourages a client to communicate fully and frankly with the attorney, even about embarrassing or legally damaging subject matter. I want to hear the hard part at the first meeting.

Where the crash report, exchange details and insurance cards come from

A North Carolina crash report is the written report a law enforcement officer makes after investigating a reportable accident, and G.S. 20-166.1(e) requires the officer to make it within 24 hours of the accident. Under G.S. 20-166.1(i), reports made by law enforcement officers are public records open to inspection by the general public at all reasonable times.

The North Carolina Division of Motor Vehicles gives a person involved in the crash a redacted copy by mail or in person on form TR-67A. G.S. 20-166.1(e) also says nothing in the section prohibits a law enforcement agency from providing to the public accident reports or portions of them that are public records. Form TR-67A asks for the county of the crash, which can differ from the county where you live.

24 hoursfor the investigating officer's written crash report, G.S. 20-166.1(e)
TR-67Athe NCDMV crash report request form, revised July 1, 2024

Exchange information under G.S. 20-166(b) and (c1)

Exchange information is the set of details a driver in a North Carolina crash hands over at the scene. Under G.S. 20-166(b), a driver required to stop at a crash that has resulted in injury or death gives the person struck and the driver or occupants of any vehicle collided with the driver's name, address, driver's license number and license plate number. G.S. 20-166(c1) requires the same details from a driver required to stop under subsection (c), which includes a crash with property damage only.

The accident checklist in the North Carolina Department of Insurance consumer guide adds the other driver's phone number and insurance information. It tells drivers to record the insurance company and policy number exactly as they appear on the other driver's proof of insurance card. The same guide tells drivers to make sure they have an insurance identification card. The North Carolina Division of Motor Vehicles recognizes an insurance card with the customer's name and policy number along with effective and expiration dates as proof of liability insurance.

The papers for a first meeting and where each one comes from
PaperWhere it comes fromRule or source behind it
Crash reportThe investigating officer, with copies from the NCDMV on form TR-67A or from the law enforcement agencyG.S. 20-166.1(e) and (i), NCDMV
Exchange informationThe other driver at the sceneG.S. 20-166(b) and (c1)
The other driver's insurance informationThe other driver's proof of insurance cardNC Department of Insurance accident checklist
Your insurance cardYour own auto policy, with your name, the policy number and its effective and expiration datesNC Department of Insurance consumer guide, NCDMV
Medical records and billsEach health care provider that treated you45 CFR 164.501 and 164.524
PhotosYour phone or the phone of anyone who was with youYour own record, with no form behind it

The NCDMV says to allow 10 business days from receipt for a crash report requested by mail,. Bring the papers you have after a car accident.

How do I get my medical records and bills before the meeting?

Under 45 CFR 164.524(a)(1), the federal HIPAA Privacy Rule gives an individual a right of access to inspect and obtain a copy of protected health information about the individual in a designated record set. The definition of a designated record set in 45 CFR 164.501 includes the medical records and billing records a health care provider keeps about individuals.

Each provider that treated you keeps its own records and bills, so each one is a separate request. Under 45 CFR 164.524(b)(1), a provider can require the request in writing as long as it tells you so.

Ask each provider for records and billing records

Ask each provider for the medical records and the billing records from the date of the crash forward.

The 30-day deadline under 45 CFR 164.524(b)(2)(i)

A covered entity acts on a request for access no later than 30 days after it receives the request.

One extension of no more than 30 days

Under 45 CFR 164.524(b)(2)(ii), a provider that cannot meet the deadline can extend it once by no more than 30 days. It gives you a written statement of the reasons for the delay and the date it will finish.

Under 45 CFR 164.524(c)(3)(ii), a written and signed request can direct the provider to send the copy to another person you designate. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services says a January 23, 2020 federal court order limits that directive to requests for a copy of an electronic health record in an electronic format. Under 45 CFR 164.524(c)(2)(i), the provider gives the copy in the form and format you ask for when it is readily producible that way.

Bring the records and bills that have arrived by the day of the meeting.

Settlement papers signed early and your underinsured motorist coverage

The North Carolina Department of Insurance consumer guide cautions, in its uninsured and underinsured motorists coverage section, that the insurance company will not provide coverage if you or your legal representative settles the bodily injury or property damage without the company's written consent. A release or settlement agreement that arrives before the meeting is the one paper to leave unsigned until we meet.

Underinsured motorists coverage is the coverage that protects a covered individual when an at-fault underinsured driver causes injury, in the words of the same guide.

Written notice under G.S. 20-279.21(b)(4)

G.S. 20-279.21(b)(4) ties the underinsured motorist insurer's rights to written notice of a settlement. An insurer that gets written notice before a settlement with the underinsured driver and does not advance a payment equal to the tentative settlement within 30 days cannot exercise any right of subrogation or any right to approve a settlement with the underinsured driver.

Exception. Waiting for the meeting is not a reason to delay telling your own insurance company about the accident. The Department of Insurance guide says the policy requires you to notify the company of how, when and where the accident happened and to cooperate with the investigation, and it says to notify the company as soon as reasonably possible.

If an adjuster has already sent a release, bring it to the meeting unsigned or reach the office before you sign anything.

Questions

Common questions

Does talking at the first meeting commit me to hiring you?

Talking at the first meeting does not commit you to hiring me. Whether we work together is decided at that meeting, and Rule 1.18(b) of the North Carolina Rules of Professional Conduct protects what you told me even if the answer is no.

Where does the in-person meeting take place?

The in-person meeting takes place where you are, after our first conversation by phone or video. Wherever you are in North Carolina, I can come to you, and the areas this site serves cover the state outside Alamance, Caswell, Orange, Chatham and Wake counties.

Can I talk with someone in Spanish before the meeting?

Lorena Meza is a paralegal who works with me and speaks Spanish, and she is the Spanish-language contact for the office. Call 336-221-8900 and ask for Lorena if Spanish is easier for you before we meet.

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About the attorney

Julian Doby, attorney since 1998

Julian Doby has been admitted to practice in North Carolina since 1998, North Carolina State Bar No. 25407, and he represents injured people across the state. His one office is at 110 W. Elm Street in Graham. He meets clients across the state after a first conversation by phone or video.

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Sources and verification (12)
  1. N.C. Rules of Professional Conduct, Rule 1.18(a) and comment [1], ncbar.gov, verified October 18, 2026.
  2. N.C. Rules of Professional Conduct, Rule 1.6(a) and comments [2] and [3], ncbar.gov, verified October 18, 2026.
  3. N.C. Gen. Stat. § 20-166.1(e) and (i), ncleg.gov, verified October 18, 2026.
  4. N.C. Gen. Stat. § 20-166(a), (a1), (b), (c) and (c1), ncleg.gov, verified October 18, 2026.
  5. NCDMV, Crash Reports, verified October 18, 2026.
  6. NCDMV form TR-67A, Request for Motor Vehicle Information (Crash Reports), revised July 1, 2024, verified October 18, 2026.
  7. NC Department of Insurance, A Consumer's Guide to Automobile Insurance, Accident Checklist and Insurance Tips, verified October 18, 2026.
  8. NCDMV, Proving Insurance, verified October 18, 2026.
  9. 45 CFR 164.524(a)(1), (b)(1), (b)(2)(i) and (ii), (c)(2)(i) and (c)(3)(ii), eCFR (up to date as of 10/15/2026), verified October 18, 2026.
  10. 45 CFR 164.501, definition of designated record set, eCFR (up to date as of 10/15/2026), verified October 18, 2026.
  11. U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, Court Order Vacating the Third-Party Directive, Ciox Health, LLC v. Azar, No. 18-cv-0040 (D.D.C. Jan. 23, 2020), verified October 18, 2026.
  12. N.C. Gen. Stat. § 20-279.21(b)(4), ncleg.gov, verified October 18, 2026.

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